So, I got dragged to this mainly female-attended lecture, or maybe, presentation/discussion, by a fairly well-credential academic psychologist. The subject was 'masks that people wear and the pain of relationships.' ...I take it the context was modern relationships, and particularly those that women were having, or at least looking at things from the female perspective. Mmn... maybe a female perspective.
But I'd have to say I have heard more or less the same ideas coming from men and expressed in different words but amounting to the same thing.
Computer game future parkour character - 'Faith Connors.' |
This woman, very intelligent, very qualified via academic degrees and so on - no children, never had any either natural or adopted - was going to explain some deep things. She said she was being honest in saying that she had been, probably still was to some extent, a violent person and someone who had experienced a lot of pain... ...from her bf (whether those in the past or the current one) flirting with other women. And so she lashed out and was violent and angry.
Going back to the recent previous discussions here on this Blog, I am going to slightly 'walk back' what I said about being able to discover your 'eyes' over about six months. That is not completely correct. You don't need to wait any time at all. Either you do or you don't, right away, or you will or you won't, right away. First comes the immediate recognition (we'll get into the process in some detail later). But in all events we are not talking about 'visions' or 'dream segments' or any kinds of hallucinations. You 'open your eyes' you see everything there is to see. Any baby will tell you though, that when they first open their eyes, bright lights can be blinding, and many images are indistinct to begin with but they after a while come into clear focus, and even then you can't always understand what they are... ...because you're a baby! Still. At that time.
It's the act of opening your eyes, finding your optical capabilities, not any other sort of thing that is somehow a conditional matter (as most esoteric 'illumination' seems to be). It doesn't take six months to 'open your eyes.'
Scientist Wahabis that talk about metaphorical 'inner vision' or 'dream sequences,' or hallucinations when it comes what we are referring to here - are being dishonest. They are deliberately talking about something that we are not talking about, and pretending to not look at what we are talking about. To be oblivious of its existence.
And I am skeptical of a woman who, not actually middle-aged though nearing it, and without the experience of having raised children, is going to tell human beings about the pain of relationships, or the problems of relating, and then is proposing to give you answers and solutions. In the event of this presentation, she more or less suggested that people wore masks that covered their true selves, and these were put on to accommodate expectations of parents, or society, of a range of other things especially (from what I could gather from what she had said) the false spiritual ideas of religions. It sounds right...
Anyone who has had children will tell you that life is not about having things, possessing boyfriends, or girlfriends, or husbands or wife - it is about children, having and raising children, and nothing else at all, because we are all children and when we get old and die, we are children still; we die 'as children' entering something else, some place else: entering 'nothingness,' or entering Jannah where the men will have 82 virgins... Why I say 'children' or 'as children' because it is clear we know nothing beforehand, right? Those who say 'nothingness' cannot prove it, and neither are those who say 'Jannah (with 82 virgins)' able to prove that either.
So.
So...
Now... But you are moving away from the state of being a 'children' - you know, one of those stupid things that have a handful of University degrees, and who with depression dripping from every word off their tongue, lecture you about what they know and what is true.
Er, don't attempt 'parkour' after you have had a couple of these things, especially not these size of them! |
This woman's import mainly was that she feared being left alone (since the guy was flirting with other women) and she suppressed her anger and perhaps even rage, by putting on masks, until at some point she exploded into violence. And she said she 'feared being left/left alone' because she believed she was not 'good enough' somehow - or maybe, in the eyes of the boyfriend or husband that she 'had...' (aka 'possessed,' was attempting to possess; my diacritics).
Well in the Jannah, this guy is not going to merely be flirting with the 82 virgins, although admittedly, how they get to be 'virgins' again each morning is a bit beyond me, because I have no experience of this particular place.
The only Jannah I know, there are no virgins in that place.
Okay but I fully say that everything this woman was saying was 100% completely valid. And there is the problem the human race has, see - they say stuff which is true, and then they pretend they know for sure what the answer is and then they go around and lecture people and make up rules and establish conditions and all kind of stuff.
What is true about what she said was that she felt bad, at some point. That is a true statement she made. Everything after that point was absolute rubbish. And that is why I resorted to being stupid myself and bringing in the silly 82 virgins things to shove it into the mindsets of the others in the hall, just to be irritating. Because let me tell you, these people irritate me too! LOL
I mean you can't seriously say you have an answer and then demonstrate depression in the tone of your voice, and in the lip shaking, teary-eyed demeanor and delivery.
You don't have an answer if you do that kind of thing.
So what's the answer? Eh, Jesus, what's the damn answer.
You open your eyes and you'll find out.
This Blog is addressed to women every bit as much as to men - you open your own eyes and you just tell me (well, you don't need to tell me; you can tell yourself) what you see. And then you deal with the reality whatever way you choose. Not my problem.
Watch the vid. below, read the lyrics, understand that there is stuff going on 'under the radar' 'behind the scenes,' all the time. When Dr Jim Green, NASA chief scientist, says they are getting close to announcing discovery of ET intelligent life, he isn't joking around. He goes on to say 'and there will be extensive consequences.' There won't be any of those.
Because most of this world is filled with idiotic 'children,' and they will continue insisting they want to remain as idiotic children. What about you?
After you absorb the lyrics, I will post another video of the same track, more or less, but without the lyrics on-screen. And it will be in a slightly different tempo with some alterations...