Must Address 'Boredom'

You will most certainly find, if you are in any way at all a thinker, especially a self-reflective one, that one major issue that becomes a very ugly one right throughout the normal human life - is that of becoming bored trying to chase other human beings down slippery slopes and rabbit holes.

Different if any of these were actually 'White Rabbit holes.'

The very mysterious art of
having coffee alone - 
in Rome (where I have not been).

If you talk with any practicing psychoanalyst who has some regular human analysis subjects (people who have agreed to subject themselves to scholarly if otherwise dubious templates about what a well-ordered human being should be) - then you will come away with one very obvious conclusion:

By far the most world-around issue with people is their own stubborn inability to see that they have placed 'what I want' ahead of the proposition that in a relationship 'what I want' always must exactly match with 'what they want.'

'So-and-so provides me with what I want.'

Well why?

And what happens as soon as they no longer do that or you can't get that out of them?

Why this situation is there at all is fundamentally because people do not trust other people on the whole.

So to get basic needs, they must exploit holes and gaps and vulnerabilities in the next person in order to meet a certain level of emotional and psychological return, but in the end, this leads the whole human race into a position of extreme pathology.

Not only that, it is a pathology that no leader is prepared to admit and then to act upon to resolve.

I know all of you - you are all too smart to accept anything less than the very very adequate. And by that I mean not in the way that it is just an objectification that meets low threshold criteria.

No you all want the optimum path.

That's Angelique Johnson
on the left: the most important
female stylist in the world today,
that you've never heard of.
She's been to Rome.
This pic is prolly in Florence 
though.
She lives in France now although
she was born in the USA.

You recognize the possibility of your own potential flaws in the eyes of others, but you are also well-enough aware of your positives.

I'm afraid what the optimum path looks like, is not going to sit well with the rest of human society - especially if they all see that you are different, with a different lifestyle, with a lot of different things going on in your life that they do not have but that they want.

This issue is so important that it necessarily must become a whole series here - which is as of right now completely unplanned; I have no idea what will unfold or how it will but that it will is a necessity.